That data is from SO Detail and SO header is already linked to the object (for Customer PO to be displayed in the grid), so I don't think there is a simple work-around.
SO Detail UDF for the Confirm To, plus a script to copy the value from the SO Header (header pre-write, with a loop), should work.
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Kevin Moyes
Technical Systems Analyst
Munjal White Consulting Co.
Toronto ON
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